Understanding what it means to be in a relationship -- Dating, living together, and marriage -- General educators are from Jupiter; special service providers are from Saturn -- Matchmaker, matchmaker : the role of the administrator -- Getting to know your partner -- Registering for the wedding -- Discussing the future -- Matchmaker, matchmaker : the role of the administrator -- For better or worse : establishing norms for behavior and academics -- For richer or poorer : sharing space and materials -- Planning quality time together : why, when, and how to plan -- Matchmaker, matchmaker : the role of the administrator -- Working together to wrangle the li’l rascals -- Teaching the seven dwarves -- Are we successful yet? -- Playing nicely with the other parents -- Matchmaker, matchmaker : the role of the administrator -- Appendix : keeping the honeymoon going